Love these Days is Just a Physical Attraction, People dont Rise in Love in this era, rather they get Attracted

So this is what is missing in People in today's times.

People (Young Boys-girls, Couples, even matured men and women) are falling in love with bodies not the soul inside, the attraction these days is Just #Physical . There is no depth in people's love, rather there is no love. People don't know how to love, whom to love and what is the purpose of love at large. They all are running after attractions.

A few days ago, by chance, I happen to reach the MuktiDham (In India: It's a place where we cremate dead bodies and perform final rights), To my surprise, a young couple, lesser than my age (maybe in their late 20's) they were having issues in their conjugal life, the poor girl was cold blooded murdered and the entire episode is being projected as a Suicide. I had a chance to talk to the brothers of the girl, and listening to them alone is sufficient proof that this case was one of a murder not a suicide. They should engage a criminal lawyer (dealing in divorces/settlement of marriages) and pursue this matter and ensure that Rascal gets a lifetimer behind the bars.

Coming Back to My point - There is no love these days!!!

Also another thought and curiosity that gets answered is - as why many couples though physically unmatchable are still couples, because they both love each other on soul level!!! 

— feeling emotional.

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Realizations and Mood of a City, Momentum of a city, Pace of a city

Yesterday, noon & evening , 13.04.2023 (In, Raipur, Central India), I happened to spend my day, talking to few friends (my dear ones, after a long break and did we talk so deeply in a very short span of time, also happen to talk about Professional front and that discussion went so deep and for so long that, we got emotional on certain things) khair-(A Hindi Word) (In English- nonetheless) coming back on Topic- Realizations.

What do Realizations even mean? What are realizations? These may not even mean anything to anyone. 

But to me, I think these are more precious than any wealth or any friendship in this entire world. I believe, realizations means evaluating your emotions and then coming to a conclusion that this is the best thing for that time. I don't know, if people can even realize for the sake of Realizing, as what they are to realize. Yesterday, while talking to a friend, by my subconscious mind (whom I label as The Best Friend one can ever have in this planet) , concluded that I am here not to take anything, but to Give! I believe, there can be no bigger better brighter (BBB) realization than this!!!

Coming on pace of cities.....Every city in this world has a Pace, a Momentum, An Energy of its own, An Aura, A Vibe, A feel Goodness about itself....

Like I have been and fortunate enough to live in quiet a few cities, across the world.

Like Last night while driving a motorbike, this realization hit me and I was aww stricken, Like immediately, I felt I will share my experience on this through my blog!!!

I believe a lot many of you, might have felt this energy exchange and momentum.

Like Bombay in India, it the fastest city of India (here we talk even about the minutes, like no where else in India),

Like Kolkata (which is far extreme right to Bombay and is also exactly opposite to Bombay like it can be termed the slowest city in India (Yet the happiest, easiest, care-Est, jolliest, good feel vibes city of India) I believe being slow gives more opportunity to be you.

Like then there are small small villages in India, where being alive has no real meaning...they have their own pace and life and momentum.

Then there are semi big cities, which also have a semi mid pace.

If one can catch the right pace and momentum, I am sure, there is nothing more than an ecstasy, the feeling of good vibes, all around and throughout!! That is the type of living one should aspire for.

If you have any such stories, events, feelings, about the pace and momentum of any place, you can come to me and we can talk...there could be a real connect , if by any chance, I also happen to be an inhabitant of that place.

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Health First then Any other Wealth, Real Wealth is Health (ONLY)

So finally I found my new Topic to write, something about. On April 7, 2023, was World Health Day. That day, I was thinking about Health and Wealth, and How one of India's Richest Investor left behind a heavy estate and died early, regretting about Ignoring his Health. Thereafter, few Imminent people in India, though pretty young, died. People are dying like how fruits fall from the trees on being ripe, but here people are not even maturing or getting old enough to die. After Covid Pandemic Erupted, People in India are dying of Heart Failures like falling pack of cards. This we know, because this is now on WhatsApp University, News and among the talk of People. Life has certainly changed since 2020. We even have fitness related group and we often talk and share about things related to Health. Health and staying fit is one of my favorite passion. I would like to special mention about my Brother Deepak Ghanshyam Agarwal, who has made Health and Fitness his career. I always dreamed of someone with whom I can talk deeply about these things. And god willing, I have got him, A couple of days ago, I was invited by him , in one of his Zoom Meetings (of-course on health and fitness), I must say, It was thoroughly Professional and they all had so much knowledge and wisdom like I have always dreamed about. 

That Day, my takeaway from that 1 hour long Zoom Meeting was things I should be doing. They stressed about bringing a change in our normal lifestyle so that we can enjoy/absorb the elements of Earth, fire , Air. They explained how Age Old Indian system, Way of living was already making use of so many things which connected us with the nature. The main thing is living as close to nature, which in turn affects our mood. Like, I wrote in their feedback that I will do Gardening (to absorb element of earth) , I will do sun bathing (to absorb element of fire- to absorb vital vitamins), I will get out of city limits and get close to nature like go to nearby forests like Barnawapara (where I have been few times and loved the time we spent there), I will use utensils made from Clay (Mitti ke Bartan Utensils made from Clay i.e. Earth element- In India since time immemorial we have been using utensils made from Clay, even till this date, and in small villages, people still use them. A major change we already implemented this year is we started keeping Water Jar (Ghada in Hindi- A Jar made from Clay- to keep water cool) instead of using refrigerator for cold water in summer. Another thing that strike my attention was watching the stars, and the sky and the clouds and the moon. We should watch these often.

 

Coming Back on the Topic: Today I want to tell about the Famous Kair/Ker Pickle from Rajasthan.

Some photos I am sharing of Raw Kair/ker for connecting purpose.

We have been consuming Kair/Ker since we were kids. I never knew this was India's most expensive vegetable/fruit. A WhatsApp message on Kair/ker stuck my attention, and I thought about sharing it further among my friends and fitness Group. And the result is- This Blog Post!! A group member Sureshine Govender asked me for a picture of a Bottle Label. 

It kind of gives a small feeling of Pride to see Kair/ker comes from Rajasthan. There are many ways in which we can consume Kair. My mom makes pickle and even Kair curry. But my personal favorite is eating it in Pickle Form. 

Let's see what Authentic Source says about Kair/ker:

Nutritional and medicinal value of Kair (Capparis decidua).

Author(s) : Baloda, S. P. ;  Bangarwa, K. S.

Author Affiliation : Department of Horticulture, CCS Haryana Agricultural University, Hisar - 125 004, Haryana, India.

Abstract : Capparis decidua (Forsk) Edgew commonly known as Kair, is an important nutritional and medicinal plant. It belongs to family Capparidaceae. The flower buds and immature green fruits are pickled, cooked and consumed as vegetables. The mature fruits, meanwhile, are consumed fresh. The fruits are rich in protein (8.6%) and vitamin C (7.8 mg/100 g of pulp by weight). The amount of sugar varies from 1.7 percent to 3.0 percent. The seeds contain 20.3 percent oil. Aside from economic uses, kair also have medicinal qualities. The immature fruits are used to cure the stomach problems especially constipation. The bark is used to cure coughs, asthma, ulcers, boils, vomiting, piles and all types of inflammations. Stem bark is also used for rheumatism and toothaches, including pyorrhea. Simultaneously, it will be valuable to evaluate utility potential of flower/fruits in cancer patients due to high content of spermidin containing alkaloids, which are implicated in tumorogenesis. The young shoots and leaves are used as antidote against poison and as a cure for joint problems. The oil from the seeds contain nitrogen and sulphur which is used to cure skin diseases. The present paper highlights nutritional and medicinal importance of the kair and unnoticed threatened status in their respective riches for sustainable use and long lasting conservation.

ISSN : 0970-2873

This Blog Has already made my mind tired! I will update/edit it later.....

Edit:14.04.2023 (Sticking to Topic Health)

Will Like to Add about #ProBiotics and Coconut as Health Foods!!

Got these from one of the Health Related Zoom Meeting of an eminent company from Healthcare Industry

Coconut - Few Ready Reckoner Pointers

1. It makes Blood Plasma Instantly

2. Was given intensively during world war 2 as blood was short

3. One should daily consume coconut...it is a wonder fruit

4. It has all the benefits of milk

5. There is no trans fat in coconut

6. Use coconut oil if possible

7. Virgin Coconut Oil is really really good for gargle every morning

Probiotics:

In the era of Covid, all your body needs is a daily doze of probiotics for good gut and good balance in the body, all other diseases will subside, if your stomach has good probiotics. It is the first and foremost pre-requisite for a healthy body and then mind. In Ayurveda (dhanwantri) it has been stated that the biggest wealth of this planet is health. We all humans should spend some 10-15 minutes to achieve wealth of health too just like how we spend 8-10 hours in achieving wealth. We should aspire for Total Wealth. For that the beginning is from having billions of good bacteria in your stomach i.e. PROBIOTICS!!!

India's biggest investor Rakesh Jhunjhunwala left behind fortune worth over 40000 crores , but even that much money couldn't help him, he regretted not spending enough time on achieving good health.

Hoegaarden Beer (Alcohol Free) just having today right now...Beers also have probiotics!!

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Morning Click at a Temple in University- Maa Banjari Mata

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Happiness & Dr.Khetawat from India

Everyday, I read Dr. Sudhir Khetawat's Morning Thoughts, which are very inspiring. It acts as daily dose of vitamins for our mind and soul. And Fortunately yesterday (April 3, 2023), Uncle himself called upon me and appreciated my this below post and asked me to frequently keep writing and keep sharing my thoughts, to which I agreed, as and when I get something to ponder upon with my life experiences, I will write and share in his Group. He even told me that he will give me his first copy of his Daily Thoughts (more than 1000 thoughts now). I look forward to a lot of learnings and guidance from him, in the times to come. He was already very supportive, on his call. I wish to complete two courses (Hypnotism & Acupressure) under his guidance. Hopefully, I will complete them soon.

(Edit: 14.04.2023- Dr. Khetawat, a renowned name in India, is reachable at his website: https://www.drkhetawat.com/home)

Coming Back to Today's Post:

Taking inspiration from him (Dr. Sudhir Khetawat) 

Today's Thoughts- Happiness can be found even at the darkest of times. Happiness is what? A mental state. A mental state is always influenced by the environment in which one is exposed to, or have been exposed to, based on the memory one keeps on accumulating over the years, since birth. 

To achieve a permanent state of happiness, there is a need to go through a process called self evolution. As long as one keeps allowing oneself to be distracted by all the so called all other happiness items, one can never ever reach that ultimate stage. The stage where one realizes that the truths of life are - The God, The Time, The Material world, The Actions one performs and finally the Soul. All these are interlinked and centers around Happiness.

My personal observation which is beyond everything else is- If you learn new thing everyday, you will be happy!

03.04.2023

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The 3 AM People

It has again been a long break since Covid Pandemic Erupted in 2020, and we all in spare times started  honing our hidden skills and talent. I too wrote few blogs and began my journey into the writing arena. My small cousin sister like half the my age, is now known as Author  Priyanka Khetawat. It makes me think that when a small kid can write, why cannot I? It also reminds me of my school days, where being an average student in Language Subject (Nepali), how one of my Nepali Language Teacher, went out of way and helped not only me but all other classmates to improve our language skills (He recommended a regular reading of novels, books and just anything to expand the horizon) and I did exactly that, buying some books and started reading. Then came the Breakthrough within few months, in next terminal exams, I started thinking/Imagining and started writing slowly on my own rather than Mugging Up and the results were apparent, I started writing very layman's and in a very simple way. My teacher not only motivated me, but played a very role in expanding my Horizons. Till this day, I really appreciate Him Koshraj Neupane Sir. I wish that every student gets a mentor like him. 

The Post display picture is about 3 am people. They are different. I have decided to put my 3 am thoughts on my blog all again.

Hope this one , today's 3 am thoughts , you all might appreciate.

"There is growth, there is progress and there is success. All these are different things. The outcome varies, the target audience varies and benefits varies. Majority say more than 90% people on this planet are stuck in growth phobia, the remaining percentage are stuck in progress, and then the remaining less than 0.01% are the ones whose success has moved this planet ahead. It is their success that had made each and every growth and progress meaningful!! The world needs to understand this simple yet the most complex ecosystem. Both growth and progress are selfish and only Success is without any selfishness done as if its a service by a devotee to his god, and that's the level of dedication one needs for success. If the spirit needs to be high , it has to be as high as this. 

AA 30.03.2023"

Just sharing. They say sharing is caring. 

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Two Sweet Words By Arun Agarwal May 21, 20-20

धाई अक्षर प्रेम के 

Two sweet words is what the world really/only needs

live and love 

Let there be only love and live with no boundaries 

Let there be happiness 

Let there be no judgements 

Let there be more

If we can only live and love , the world would be a true bliss

Today May 21, 20-20

धाई अक्षर प्रेम के

due parole dolci sono ciò di cui il mondo ha veramente / solo bisogno

vivi e ama

Lascia che ci sia solo amore e viva senza confini

Lascia che ci sia felicità

Lascia che non ci siano giudizi

Lascia che ci sia di più

Se solo potessimo vivere e amare, il mondo sarebbe una vera felicità

धाई अक्षर प्रेम के

dos palabras dulces es lo que el mundo realmente / solo necesita

Vive y ama

Que solo haya amor y viva sin límites

Que haya felicidad

Que no haya juicios

Que haya más

Si solo pudiéramos vivir y amar, el mundo sería una verdadera dicha

Hoy 21 de mayo, 20-20

धाई अक्षर प्रेम के

два сладких слова - это то, что действительно нужно миру

жить и любить

Пусть будет только любовь и жизнь без границ

Да будет счастье

Пусть не будет суждений

Пусть будет больше

Если бы мы могли только жить и любить, мир был бы настоящим счастьем

Сегодня 21 мая, 20-20

धाई अक्षर प्रेम के

deux mots doux est ce dont le monde a vraiment / seulement besoin

vis et aime

Qu'il n'y ait que de l'amour et vive sans frontières

Que le bonheur soit

Qu'il n'y ait pas de jugements

Qu'il y ait plus

Si seulement nous pouvions vivre et aimer, le monde serait un vrai bonheur

Aujourd'hui 21, 20-20 mai

What is Love ? By Mira Myra

❤️What is Love❤️?! 

              

       

The concept of love is understood by many as having a romantic meaning and being attributed to love between two people or between people in general, so it is indeed, but love is not only just that😊 So let's look at it from a different angle.. 

From ancient times, different cultures talk about love, as that physical, mental and spiritual union, that connection between people, and respectively of people with the rest of existence.

I would like to say briefly what love is, by emphasizing what love is not! Love does not mean: attachment, possessiveness, jealousy, restraint, suffocation, reproach, injustice, depreciation. If you love someone you set them free! 

Love is not just a feeling, an emotion, or just a connecting energy; love is the creative force that underlies creation! It is an attribute of power and a form of manifestation of the Soul, in fact we have incarnated to learn what love is, and we can do this only by experimenting ' love in matter' , which is nothing but the manifestation of God ( I hope you understand, that in order to experience anything, it has to be in a dense form, which is matter/darkness).

Love is definately a catalyst for transformation! In order to be able to love, you must first "understand" everything, and come to understand through cultivation.

People manifest love from its three levels: Self (the hidden / dark side of being), Soul and Higher Self (Consciousness).

1. Self-manifested love is associated with 'sexualized love' and tends to be the most "popular" - so to speak. At the level of the self there is the sexual attraction between people, that 'chemistry' that was consumed, when those two selves harmonized and known each other completely.

At this level, love towards material goods and things is manifested, towards carnal, pleasures and desires. This is where attachments develop and the relationships at this level are usually karmic.. 

This is a type of love, but far inferior to it, that must be cultivated in order to ascend to the next level, the Soul.

2. Love at the level of the Soul is unconditional love, compassion and forgiveness. 

*Here we transcend physical connection and start to manifest love towards everything and feel a deeper connection with our Self and others. 

*Here we learn the importance of forgiveness of thyself and others, to understand that forgiveness is the precursor of Love and is the only true medicine for the Soul. 

*Here we learn what it means to speak to the world through the language of love, because everyone perceives love in a certain way and has its own language to express and experience love, so we must learn to speak to the world through the language of love, this is very important! At this level there is a transfer of soul and we must be very careful how much, how and to whom we offer not to lose from our soul.

To love from this level means to manifest the Spirit in Love, it means to understand what love is by cultivating the inner light; This means that as you reach a higher / refined level of light (Consciousness) , no action and nothing negative from the outside will touch or affect you, thus you can manifest unconditional love.

You will look with wise eyes up to the darkness, and you will understand that it is an integral part of you and of everything, and it is necessary in manifestation and enlightenment. ☯️You will no longer try to eliminate the darkness, but through love you will learn how to control it! ☯️ From here Love can be cultivated and ascend at the next level of being. 

3.Love at the Divine level

From this level you get to look at everything in an overall picture, you can only see the bigger picture, you start to see everything as a whole and look at everything gently; you will experience love as a union and you will have a deep sense of Oneness. It will be difficult to conceive at this level that you can love a person or a limited number of people, because the notion of division no longer exists.

*Here you get to experience Absolute Love, which transcends space and time and you understand that everything is a manifestation of God. 

* Here you experience total detachment, all attachments will disappear completely and the concept of "I" no longer exists. 

*Here your manifestations will be effortlessly convincing and you will automatically attract the love of others. 

*Here you understand love by finding inner peace as you perceive love being the path to happiness. You understand that love is a 'way' and not just a feeling. 

*Here you will feel someone wherever you are! 

I have more to say but is lengthy already 😁 hope you enjoyed❤️