It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly
gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from
his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment
at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat,
knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to
able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and
decided, since I was not busy with another patient,
I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well
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redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him
if he had another doctor's appointment this
morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to
the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while
and that she
was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset
if he was a bit late.
He replied that she no longer knew who he was,
that she had
notrecognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every
morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'
He smiled as he patted my hand and said,
'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps
on my arm, and thought,'That is the kind of love
I want in my life, but dont want do anything at my end'.
True love is neither physical, nor romantic it is the true
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True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been,
will be, and will not be.
With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes
there is one that comes along that has an important
message.
This one I thought I could share with you.
The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of
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they just make the best of everything they have.
I hope you share this with someone you care about.
I just did..
'Life isn't about how to survive the storm,
But how to dance in the rain.'
We are all getting Older .
Tomorrow may be our turn.
Who's the author?
ReplyDeleteDont know the exact name but yes it is someone's loving caring tender gentle kind Heart
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